recently lost my best mate , boxer aged 13 years old, was a big handsome strapping dog, , massive tumour on his head that started to push his top pallet down so couldn't eat, R.I.P. luka me auld mucka 😢
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We had to put our cat down in December 2017, he had been suffering with an irregular heartbeat for a few months and one day he just collapsed, managed to get back up and his rear legs were basically not working and his breathing was struggling. It turned out that he had a clot on his heart and we had to have him put down. 14 years old he was, the worst part is my daughter witnessed him collapsing and struggling to breathe, she was only 4 at the time. She still talks about him now every time we drive past the vets, it's so difficult trying to explain death to a 4 year old.
I didnt mean any offence Eileen, by liking your post earlier, just sympathetic for your loss and same to ven2112, its a real heartbreak to lose a loved pet as they are a big part of our familys.gosh its heartbreaking, and trying to tell a child what happening/then the cat don't come home from vets, i still remember when i was 10, our cat got knocked down and killed, my brother brought her upstairs in wrapped in his jumper, the pain we both felt was un explainable, thought my heart was going to burst through my chest, my throat was tight and i could hardly breathe, my dad god love him, explained he was going to heaven, and he said we could bury him, we helped dig the space, got the cats favorite toys, my dad wrapped the cat in his blanket, and we placed him in the space with his toys, sort of made it easier, as we could go visit outside every day, but even now still thinking of it, my throat tightens up, sat here balling like i was when i was 10, i think it does stay with us, no matter what age we lose a pet, hope your 4 year old finds comfort in all you do